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Q. What is a Bridal Consultant?
A bridal (wedding) consultant is a professional whose training,
expertise and contacts will help make your wedding as close to
perfect as it possibly can be - and can provide valuable budgeting
solutions, etiquette advice and day to day "to do" reminders so
that your pre-planning and wedding day flow smoothly.
Q. What is a Wedding Day Coordinator?
A wedding coordinator is a trained bridal consultant who is on
hand to oversee the timeline of the rehearsal, wedding and reception.
Most coordinators meet with the bridal couple at least once before
the wedding to ensure that the couple's wishes are clearly understood.
Please note that a wedding coordinator is different than a site
or church coordinator, in that the latter usually enforce the
desires of the church or site, instead of paying attention to
the couple's wishes.
Q. Why can't I do the planning
myself?
You certainly can do the planning yourself, and that can sometimes
be a fun part of your wedding. But, it can also be a hassle, checking
out many sources for each vendor, making sure all details are
in place, and worrying about whether you're getting the best deal
- and whether everything will turn out all right. A bridal professional
has the training and experience to make it all work, and can assist
you in making the best decisions for your wedding, while showing
you how to stick to your budget.
Q. Why can't my sister or
best friend be my consultant?
Although it should be a honor to allow a family member or friend
to help plan or direct your wedding, the usual truth is that people
are either too busy to take time with projects that are not their
own, or have no idea how to run an event and find creative solutions
when something goes wrong or not as planned. When someone lets
you down, especially at this emotional and special time in your
life, the usual result is hurt feelings on the part of the bridal
couple, and a rift in a relationship that was once special. You'll
feel better knowing that your wedding is in the hands of a professional,
and your family member or friend can be asked to be in charge
of something less stressful than your entire event! Good examples
of alternate jobs are to be a part of the bridal party, do a special
reading in the ceremony, pass out programs, or preside over the
guest book.
Q. How can a Bridal Consultant
help?
With so many brides and their parents working, a bridal consultant
can handle much of the time-consuming, detailed planning for your
wedding. You save time, reduce stress, and concentrate on having
fun as your wedding approaches. And, with experience dealing with
many weddings, a consultant can smooth all of those complex relationships
that may exist in a modern family.
Q. Can I afford a Bridal Consultant or Wedding Day Director?
Although a Bridal Consultant or Wedding Day Director may seem
expensive, many of them have packages to meet a variety of budgets.
Also, most offer a "no-obligation" get-acquainted session, in
which they will suggest ways in which they may assist you with
your wedding day or pre-planning, and may be able to customize
an inexpensive package just for you.
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